I discharge the shower sump, which has its own little thru-hull, through the same thru-hull as the forward bilge pump.
The hose from the forward bilge pump rises straight up as high as possible, and then slopes down at an angle to the thru-hull. This minimizes the amount of "flow-back" when the pump turns off, keeps the hose empty, and should make it a little harder for water to come in from the thru-hull.
Just at the thru-hull, there is a "T" and the smaller hose from the shower sump is connected. This hose rises straight up from the shower sump, and then angles down to the thru-hull. Just to be on the safe side, I have a one-way valve just above the shower sump pump to keep the bilge pump output from coming back into the shower sump.
It all seems to work OK.
1975 32' Flybridge Sedan, twin Perkins 6-354 diesels, 1:1.53 velvetdrives, 16 X 19 props. Merritt Island, Florida