I had a 28' and looked at putting a door in the transom. I think it would work fine with reinforcement around the cutout. I never did it, sold the boat.
Diamond plate is lousy for a swim platform, at least in Florida. The metal stays hot, and the little triangles are rough on bathing suits. I have the stock aluminum platform on my 32', and I use a rubbery antiskid paint that stays fairly cool, and is easy on suits. That compressed cork stuff would be better.
I don't suppose there is a limit on width - it should be comfortable to stand on, and wide enough to hold a good folding ladder. My platform is a pain when maneuvering near pilings - I think that is your limit.
Someone has already solved the kicker/platform problem elsewhere on this site, and very elegantly.
You might want to consider aluminum or stainless frames with teak or starboard platform. Teak is expensive but wonderful, starboard is cheaper and low maintenance. There are a lot of swim platforms floating around in Florida: I see that
www.fpmarine.com has a teak platform 69" x 24-1/2" for $375, and stainless brackets for $150, might work. I think I would make the brackets and then do my own platform out of 1" starboard, also available surplus.
Wild idea: A friend suggested that I extend the hull back three feet, with a platform on top, like the modern European designs. Better performance, more flotation, extra storage. I think he is my friend...
1975 32' Flybridge Sedan, twin Perkins 6-354 diesels, 1:1.53 velvetdrives, 16 X 19 props. Merritt Island, Florida