Rob:
"So I am thinking my method should go as follows.
1- Sand entire surface to get smooth"
There is no reason to sand the surface 'smooth'. You are sanding to expose a new, uncontaminated surface to give the primer a grip. It can have scratches, whatever. I use 36 grit, it leaves scratches, and the primer fills them. There is no point in sanding metal. You only need it clean so that it can be etched, and only in places where it has no tight cover already.
"2- Where I go through to bare I will need to etch with a good etching primer like Petit Catalyzed as soon as possible not to let the metal oxidize. If it does oxidize I will need to lightly resand prior to coating.
"Question" I think I read somewhere that the surface will need to be wiped down with a solvent prior to coating? "
Read the can. I do not believe that you should sand over etch. The primer goes directly on it.
"3- Next apply a good sandable high-build epoxy primer over the entire surface. Sand back to smooth."
That is what I would do. The primer sands easily - nothing else does.
"Doug- I am going to assume that these different products will all work together? Petit and Primer"
I often mix Petit and USPaint products and have had no problem. If you are buying fresh, you might want to get it all from the same supplier.
"4- After a coat of good sandable primer I will sand until flat and smooth so as not to sand through the primer.
Will this need to be wiped down with any type of solvent prior to going to next step? "
I would blow it off with clean air (oil trap in the line) and hit it with a tack rag - then first topcoat. The surface is clean, you just sanded it.
"How much will this good high build primer cover up?"
High build primer covers many sins. Any scratch or small hole or ding, just paint over a couple of times. An actual dent in the metal should be filled with epoxy filler, it takes too long to fill with primer.
"Is two coats going to be enough? or will it all depend on how the finish looks?
I am also assuming after final coat you don't sand. Duh"
Using Petit Easypoxy, roll on one coat very thin (nearly transparent) and then one fairly solid coat, but not thick. Step on it 10% with Petit thinner, and roll the last coat to a shine. I don't go for a shine, I use the mat finish additive. Between coats, use a scratch pad. Read the can and under no circumstances do something someone like me suggests if it conflicts with what it says on the can.
Others have wonderful results with Brightside, but my experience with it is limited to the one mast. Actually, I'd like to fly to Thailand and see how Rick is doing with that mast, see if it has stood up well to its trip across the Pacific. Maybe enjoy a maitai served by one of those beautiful little dark-haired girls....
1975 32' Flybridge Sedan, twin Perkins 6-354 diesels, 1:1.53 velvetdrives, 16 X 19 props. Merritt Island, Florida